One of the problems that gringos often experience in Chile is our lack of rules and community spirit as in America or Europe. It is not common here that people welcome a new neighbor with a cake or sort of that, people here is very individualistic and tend to keep their noses out of their neighbors lives. We are also very tolerant with annoying noises from childs, dogs barking, loud music, etc. we think that we have not the right to rule our neighbors lives even in they annoy us.
That's very true. The one huge thing I miss from back home (apart from family, friends, cider and fish and chips) is the complete and utter lack of a community spirit. Having said that, I live in Santiago Centro! But even on spending a lot of time in other barrios and towns and places like Maipú, Providencia, Quinta Normal, La Dehesa, etc, all I generally see and sense is a slight distrust of one's neighbours and the family of one's neighbours and in-laws of one's neighnbours etc. etc. etc. No trust and zero respect.
In reality, no-one in my city back home (in the UK) would bring around a cake, biscuits or anything of the sort (like what happens in the movies!). But they would say hello, welcome you, get to know you, smile and stop you and chat in the street. People like to know about people - which can also be interpreted as nosiness. But I'd much prefer it that way than the gates, spiked walls, vicious dogs and casual mistrust i've experienced so far...
I have been living here for a year so far and each day I see or learn something about Chilean society that baffles me or outrages me.
An as for the noises, I couldn't even begin to list my grievances on here.... and Xmas is coming.

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