In my book sarcasm and satire are shining diamonds but they are sometimes difficult to deal with at forums where we only communicate with words. They are sort of seasoned genres of communication and may be overwhelming when encountered here.
They are also good tools to test your determination. If you get scared by them, then it is probably good to check the reasoning behind your decision.
I don't detect any hostility at this forum, just different approaches and perspectives that are based on experience.
Life is a great teacher, especially when you follow your heart and don't let anyone discourage you. I am proud to own all the mistakes that I have ever made because they have made me the person who I am today. For the original poster I wish strength in her heart.