... thanks for the laughs, tips & encouragement, especially El P's reply. Haha! Jason Bourne! Mine was reminiscent of INCEPTION. I heard of the trouble getting things done here from other foreigners and in this forum, but wasn't sure if I was dreaming while it was happening to me and I kept waiting for the "totem" to stop spinning but it didn't. At that point I needed a "kick" to wake me up before I lost it in there (of course my definition of "losing it" only means rolling of the eyes and pouting, which is everyday fare here).
It's just different everywhere, and I understand that.
- In the US - the middle name is the second given name (if any), mother's maiden name is not used.
- In the Philippines, one's middle name is your mother's maiden name.
- Nowhere does it say "mother's maiden" name on both passports. Besides you can only use the passport where the visa is attached to in order to get your carnet.
@Steph: The only thing I have to show is my passport (and the police clearance) because the Depto Extranjeria got the actual application form and kept it. The passport has only 2 lines for the names, first one is "SURNAME/APELLIDOS" and the next line is "GIVEN-NAMES/NOMBRES".
So my mother's maiden name appears as my 3rd name on that 2nd line because in the US, I used it as my "middle name". They want to see it on my "APELLIDOS" line. Everything else I have (the visa, the police clearance and a ROL) has it the way the chileans want it (paterno-materno format) since we explained it to them (yes, the same explanation I gave to the carnet office).
@Gloria: did you have to use a paterno-materno name when you got to the US then?
BTW, it also doesn't help that my mother's maiden name is CARLOS (and I am every bit a female). So you can imagine the extra confusion they have. One can only laugh when asked in "open-english accent"... "so... you are a boy?!".
Thank you everyone and I will check back in this thread with whatever becomes of the US Embassy visit tomorrow for others who find themselves in the same place as me.