eeuunikkeiexpat wrote:admin wrote:... What foreigners need to understand is that they are not going to change it. In fact you are in another class all together. You are neither here nor there, and for the most part have the mobility to move between them with in certain limitations. Just do not expect the same of native Chileans born in to them, to view the class system the way you do. It might seem easy from a distance for people to do something about it, but you must remember they are looking at it from the inside out (same with your own culture in many things also).
I have seen foreigner after foreigner get themselves in big trouble, trying to some how inject their foreign sense of social justice in to personal and business relationships, and get their hand bit off in Chile. For example, the most common case is the foreigners trying to take employees and make them best friends. Guess what happens? The employee from the lower class more times than naught will read that as a sign of stupidity and weakness, and take full advantage of the dumb Gringo. The Gringo goes walking away thinking all Chileans are thieves or dishonest. Most of the time that is not so much the case, as they put gas on an old social fire and did not realize that the stove was hot before touching it. Employees and workers from the lower social classes have certain expectations, and very different life experiences, and most of the time unless a foreigner has been here for many, many, years will not be able to judge those motivations correctly. My advice has been and still is, to all foreigners, is stay the hell out of it. By a fluke of where you were born, you lack the cultural experience to play in that cultural pond. Not to say you can not, just it will take a long time and you will be surprised years later about how little you understand it, even when you think you do. In any case, you are not going to fix it or change it.
Quoted to reemphasize, especially to those who want to force this forum conceived and designed to support MAINLY
FOREIGNER EXPATS into some kind of CHILE political-social-economic debate forum.
Hey if that was aimed at me then I can take the hint. Seriously, the thread topic and opening statement were totally about class. Silly me to think that they were inviting opinions. As for myself, I have been shying away from starting any threads and especially any political ones as I do agree with Admin's post from a while back. But seriously, sleep tight knowing that I was never here on a mission from Lenin looking to convert.
I do agree with Charles' post on class in Chile. Very ingrained and no expat will change that. Admin actually has a lot of insight into how Chile functions. However, when one reads the thread on tipping one can see that some are all too willing to encourage class jealousies by listening to a nana tell you that you can exploit the jardinero more than you currently do (and trust me, I know what a jardinero makes).
Anyways Eunikke U will be happy to know that I am out of here and you will once again have your homogeneous forum where you can spout off, call people Aholes for no reason, and chase out those of you who disagree with you.
To most of you, Have the time of your lives in Chile and try to remember some of the good things about your home country and try to make Chile a bit more like that.
Unlike you Eunikke (you would have made a great Pinochetista) I fully respect open dialoue with people of opposing viewpoints. Almost too much as I think I actually like Patagoniaxx. Sounds like a swell chap. Well actually there are a few others who have been kind enough to show encouragement via PM who I won't out.
If one thing makes me happy is the fact that some of the sentiments expressed here are not those of all expats in Chile (and not all the members on the forum).
Charles thanks for the valuable service you provide and all the best with your business.
If any of you ever find yourselves thinking like this chick, you might want to make sure that there are no Chileans present before sharing:
http://achiletale.blogspot.com/2007/08/ ... women.htmlYou all have a very Merry Christmas and all the best in 2011.
PS. And no need to worry about me coming back as a Josh.