by nopat on Mon Mar 16, 2009 4:28 pm
Hello
'Nopat' here. Born in Chile, +- 40 years in the States. Retired. Returned to Chile last July. I am having a harder time than my better half adjusting to the cultural shock and family expectations.Feel like I am neither an "expat" (though my taxes say I am), nor an "inpat"..therefore..NOPAT. I do not even understand half of what is being said (slang), although my spanish (if it can be called that) is getting better. Love the dogs, the drivers, the garbage just as much as other members do. My mother believes that because I was born in Chile, if I walk around barefooted I will catch cold and that I am expected to eat at 10:30 at night and ..it goes on and on and on. Chile has progressed from the Chile I knew and some of the social programs are wonderful...maternity leave, time for mothers to go home to nurse and feed babies everyday until they are 3, I think. I was a pediatrician/neonatologist in the States, so this has come as a welcome surprise. Do miss the snow/blizzards/invigorating subzero cold..truly, not kidding. In particular when I can not do a thing between 2 PM and 4 PM around here because everything is closed for siesta...did not grow up with that or I do not remember.
NOPAT